Guest Post by: Natasha Wunderlich
Questions
are an important part of learning. Parents often despair of hearing the
question “Why?” It comes out of young children’s mouths a lot.
Sometimes the questions are asked because they want attention; sometimes
questions are asked because they want answers and are curious. Kids,
being the tricksters that they are, sometimes even ask the question to
see if parents will answer the same way all the time.
From
the time they turn two until about five, kids ask “Why?” It seems that
after they turn five, the incidence of “why” questions decrease a lot. Then
they simply stop. Some of the decrease can be attributed to schooling.
As children grow and attend school, more of their questions are asked
and answered at school and less by parents; parents stop hearing the
questions and answers. Also, schools aren’t set up to encourage children
to ask why. They are set up to encourage children to learn the material
and to ask why only in the context of certain material – not simply ask
why in general.
I made myself a promise that I would answer all of Nicholas’ questions. Sometimes the answer is simple and sometimes it is not. When he asks why the sky is blue, I
give him the real answer. I explain about light and reflection and
particles and wave lengths. How much of it he absorbs I don’t know, but I
do explain. When he asks why planes fly, I explain Bernoulli’s
principle and lift. When
he asks me why cows make milk when they eat grass I tell him that I
don’t know and we will have to look it up. The new use the computer and
look it up. He learns through his questions. This is our form of
question-based learning.
This
form of question-based learning also encourages him to continue to
explore and ask why. I don’t want him to stop asking why. Why questions
are the questions that allow you to explore the world and develop a
sense of what is around you. Why questions help develop a sense of
wonder and exploration. Why questions have led to the greatest
discoveries. How would gravity, electricity, or the computer have been
discovered if people hadn’t asked why or developed a sense of
exploration?
Question-based
learning can also occur when someone asks you for an explanation.
Instead of giving the explanation, ask what your child thinks. When your
child asks, “Why is the cement truck there,” ask them, “What do you
think a cement truck might be doing there?” This type of questioning
will encourage them to use their imaginations and link things they
already know with things they are seeing. It will encourage them to
explore the world they have heard about and know about (in their minds)
with the world they can see in reality. It helps them make connections
and problem solve.
Questions
are great things. While they can get tiring – especially when it is the
same question, over and over – they are really a sign that a child is
learning and ready for more information. Parents should take these
opportunities to help their children learn. Remember, “I don’t know,
let’s look it up” it always an acceptable answer. Looking up an answer
will develop a bond between you and your child and will help develop
reading and research skills. Plus, it can be a lot of fun.
Questions are amazing opportunities.
Natasha Wunderlich
I’m
a homeschooling mom who made the choice to homeschool because I saw how
rigid schools were and noticed how fluid my son’s learning style was
and how hands-on his learning style was. We have been at it for over 2
years now (we started when he was 2) and are enjoying our time together.
Learning and teaching has brought us closer together as a family. I do
believe in structure and lessons, not simply free form schooling, but
those lessons are child-centered and directed by his interested. We are
moving on through Kindergarten and 1st Grade material now, and watching
him learn and grow is awesome. You can find me on: www.wunderfulhomeschool. wordpress.com
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2 comments:
Great post! My boys are 7 and 12, and they loooove why questions, lol. For the most part, so do we! There are times, particularly in regards to something they see on the news or when we are talking about safety, that we have answered their "why?" with a "because we said so." Usually that "because we said so" is followed by a "when you are a little older/mature, we will give you our reasoning, but right this second you need to just accept because we said so." Most of the time, however, we try to provide them with honest/factual answers.
We are also fans of the answer a question with a question thing. We started this when my oldest was very little. When realized that we were falling into the habit of simply answering everything, without giving him the opportunity to think for himself, lol.
Again, great post! :)
Katie
Homeschooling mom of two kiddos whose main educational goal is to one day beat her at online hangman (never gonna happen, btw). ;)
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